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Jan 14 '12 by Mya Jamila
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You may call me cynical but,

I have a feeling I'll never hear from this guy again, of his own volition.

"... I quite enjoyed our evening out. I've been rude in not contacting you and for that I apologize. I work Thursday - Sunday now and have to be up at 5am and I need lots of sleep, so I pretty much stay in those days and on my days off I have been catching up with close friends and family. The rest of this month will see me on the island for all my days off catching up with family there too. It seems I have entered a period where I have to turn my focus to me and family, leaving time for little else. I need to do this for me; but please be clear that my not calling you is not because you did or said anything wrong! :-)...
Good evening Mya, and take care!
*name*"

"Take care" is such a final, closed if you will, closer to a note. And I have a theory that if someone is actually interested in hanging out with you they'll suggest a better time, or let you know when they'll be in contact or when you can be in contact with them.
:(

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randyotter3000 on Jan 14 '12 at 6:47pm

You got served

aNonnymouse on Jan 14 '12 at 6:51pm

I have to turn my focus to me and family, leaving time for little else

Yeah... That's pretty clear... He even follows up with a "it's not you, it's me."

But at least he got back to you and didn't just leave you wondering. Sucks though. Sorry. :(

littlem on Jan 14 '12 at 6:52pm

yeah, what ^she^ said. :/

SuperRyan on Jan 14 '12 at 7:07pm

Why does he type so faux professionally?

jeffreyg on Jan 14 '12 at 7:40pm

randyotter3000 on Jan 14 '12 at 6:47pm
You got served

SuperRyan on Jan 14 '12 at 7:07pm
Why does he type so faux professionally?

Male version of Mya

Mya Jamila on Jan 14 '12 at 8:09pm

Ryan, I couldn't theorize. I did however, clean up "Thursday - Sunday" for him. His was a little splotchy.

jeffreyg on Jan 14 '12 at 8:12pm

are you sure you didn't just make this guy up for attention

Twiggyhall on Jan 14 '12 at 9:05pm

Bummer, girl! Keep on fishin'!

Mya Jamila on Jan 14 '12 at 9:46pm

Oh Jeff. If I wanted attention there are much better ways I could get it.

opifan64 on Jan 14 '12 at 9:58pm

SuperRyan on Jan 14 '12 at 7:07pm
Why does he type so faux professionally?

To afford as much emotional distance as possible from what he is writing to cover for the embarrassing, squirmy, and convoluted nature of his excuse, which is written in a very passive style: "The rest of this month will see me on the island" and "It seems I have entered a period..." not for certain, mind you, but it seems he has entered a period where he has to focus his attention on family.

aNonnymouse on Jan 14 '12 at 10:01pm

^Yeah, that. Poor guy just couldn't do the deed in a straightforward way.

jublin on Jan 14 '12 at 10:03pm

He finished his faux professional message with a :-) ?

aNonnymouse on Jan 14 '12 at 10:05pm

So awkward.

Chipmnk on Jan 14 '12 at 10:08pm

This letter reads like something out of Downton Abbey.

opifan64 on Jan 14 '12 at 10:10pm

It's a masterpiece of sorts.

jublin on Jan 14 '12 at 10:11pm

"The rest of this month will see me on the island. "

I want to go to this island and fight him.

opifan64 on Jan 14 '12 at 10:12pm

I just want to be seen on the island.

Chipmnk on Jan 14 '12 at 10:14pm

He must attend a luncheon and see to a duke about some recent capital he came upon.

aNonnymouse on Jan 14 '12 at 10:17pm

:-)

opifan64 on Jan 14 '12 at 10:21pm

I wish I could bust out that island excuse sometime. It's so perfectly vague and mysterious sounding.

Mya Jamila on Jan 14 '12 at 10:34pm

"The Island" refers to Vancouver Island. What's ridiculous is that he would spend all of his days off there, all three in a row per week. It costs a fair amount of money to go over by car (making it stupid to drive over just for three days, and then do it again the next week, and the next, and the next) and, if I remember correctly, his father lives further up island so though it would be pretty easy to get to the terminal from his place by public transit, so he could just "walk on", it would require a drive for someone to pick him up.

Mya Jamila on Jan 14 '12 at 10:43pm

You're looking at $50 for your vehicle + $15 for yourself as an adult for each trip you make (so double that to go there, and back).

L-M-N-O-P on Jan 14 '12 at 10:44pm

Dude's missin' out.

Adhesive Hippo on Jan 14 '12 at 10:44pm

Kookaberry on Jan 15 '12 at 12:32am

My dad's old high school buddy lives on "The Island." When he sank his boat there, he came to live with us and other friends for several months. I woke up one morning to find him passed out on our living room floor with snow on the TV, Playstation 2 remote in hand and so many roaches in an ash tray.

This has nothing to do with your predicament but it's one of the funniest moments I've experienced. Ahh...Canadians. (he's not really Canadian, he just fled there to avoid 'Nam)

skindapple on Jan 15 '12 at 12:57am

dude sounds lame, move on, you can do so much better!

the island...sounds like he's a contestant on Survivor...lol...jublin should try to get on the show and kick his ass on TV, in front of the entire world!

Mya Jamila on Jan 14 '12 at 9:46pm
Oh Jeff. If I wanted attention there are much better ways I could get it.

^...i already regret typing this...but...yea, check out her Flickr!
so sorry for going there, i just saw that stupid open window and i had to grab the pie! hahaha! :)

L-M-N-O-P on Jan 14 '12 at 10:44pm
Dude's missin' out.

^this Jeremy guy has a good head on his shoulders! and i concur!

littlem on Jan 15 '12 at 1:10am

i'd rather know, in a passive, chicken-sh*t way, than to just be wondering...

it seeeeeeems to be easier to move-on that way.

skindapple on Jan 15 '12 at 1:19am

i like when girls use their girlfriends to try and entice guys to cheat, that's like an epic win win, i think....lol....

Thomas Orrow on Jan 15 '12 at 1:23am

I thought he was being jokey and said island as in desert island or a tropical island.

Well, at least he's making it obvious what his intentions are and you can just get on with it. You'll find a new fella in no time.

Krimson on Jan 15 '12 at 1:23am

Harsh. But at least you get a pretty solid (albeit pussy-footed) message, and know not to bother waiting around harping on this guy. Move on to greener pastures.

Also, Hi.

Mya Jamila on Jan 15 '12 at 1:25am

For sure Annie. But, I hate half assed wimpy ways of saying, "I don't really want to hang out with you in the future.". But, when you don't actually understand what the person is saying (I received the message on Wednesday and I only just started to understand today [thanks to you guys]), it defeats the point of saying it like that. If it doesn't get the point across clearly, it's not doing it's job.

Mya Jamila on Jan 15 '12 at 1:27am

I am a dense being, I don't understand messages like that.

skindapple on Jan 15 '12 at 1:33am

maybe he's a wimp, a wimp of a man, and you don't need a wimp!
wimp = wimpy response

Mya Jamila + Wimp = A No Go/Lame

Mya Jamila + Pimp = Lots Of $ To Go Around

Mya Jamila + Real Man = Real Big O's

Mya Jamila + Right Man = Lots Of $ and Really Big O's

skindapple on Jan 15 '12 at 1:35am

if you don't understand messages like that then you never will understand the man who wrote it...i think....idk....sounds good!
:)

Mya Jamila on Jan 15 '12 at 1:36am

There will always be more guys but he wasn't a guy I was interested in as someone to date/sleep with. If we had, it would have been fine but, first and foremost I'd found a dance partner. :(

We both jive so, neither of had to learn new steps. He danced really well, he kept his hands where they should be and I could stomach his presence off the dance floor. He taught me a variation on jive that I didn't know, and I was going to teach him to jump jive. :(

L-M-N-O-P on Jan 15 '12 at 2:35am

I think 'Really Big O's' should be a breakfast cereal.

'Wake up in the morning time to a fresh serving of Really Big O's!'
(as part of a complete breakfast)

Jake Friedman on Jan 15 '12 at 2:49am

With a Really Big glass of Orange juice

taz-pie on Jan 15 '12 at 9:41am

I would eat that cereal EVERY DAY

SuperRyan on Jan 15 '12 at 9:55am

gotta eat it in the shower

taz-pie on Jan 15 '12 at 10:11am

Mmhmmmmm

jeffreyg on Jan 15 '12 at 10:21am

skindapple on Jan 15 '12 at 12:57am
^...i already regret typing this...but...yea, check out her Flickr!
so sorry for going there, i just saw that stupid open window and i had to grab the pie! hahaha! :)

SuperRyan on Jan 15 '12 at 10:34am

This is getting to a point where even I am uncomfortable.

randyotter3000 on Jan 15 '12 at 10:37am

littlem on Jan 15 '12 at 12:03pm

wtf? is that a large curd cottage cheese pie?

stubby43 on Jan 15 '12 at 2:43pm

sour milk.

Johnny Baboon on Jan 15 '12 at 3:19pm

you ain't got time for scrubs.

jet approves on Jan 15 '12 at 3:23pm

what the what, jeff?

Mya Jamila on Jan 15 '12 at 6:19pm

Oops, sorry Kevin, I got distracted!
Hi. How are you doing?

skindapple on Jan 15 '12 at 6:33pm

oh yea, REALLY BIG O's in the morning are the best, it's the easiest way to chop down me morning wood! you can't start a day off better than that, it makes the day complete!

skindapple on Jan 15 '12 at 6:37pm

@Mya Jamila: sorry that you lost a decent dance partner, but wouldn't you rather have your favorite bestest dance partner also be your lover?! that's like awesome if you ask me, you could have Really Big O's while dancing, which is pretty much dry humping, and you could have Really Big O's anywhere and everywhere else! just start shooting for Really Big O's and life will come together for you...see what i did there...

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Kookaberry on Jan 03 '12 at 12:07am
Much like a bell on a cat to warn birds of forthcoming danger, I shall ring a bell for you every time I am about to make a joke, Mya.

Jackanapes mk.II on Jan 17 '09 at 10:22pm
Very cool.

You're like a mini-Margo.

Omair is the greatest!
iPear on Feb 23 '09 at 8:44pm
Mya Jamila you're all complex and weird and crap, so I think you would be like a ground hog. Those things are so fucking weird and complex, and everyone's like "look at that groundhog, that groundhog is so complex and interesting". People would write blogs and childrens books about you, you'd be so popular that there would be a day named after you. This day is called "Saturday", and every "Saturday" everyone would go to your little groundhog pad, and throw carrots and potatos and beans down the hole and you'd eat until you shat turds the size of gumballs (which is pretty huge considering you're no bigger than a King Size Snickers Bar). But yeah, you also have incredible weather predicting skills.

iPear on May 06 '09 at 10:17pm
Mya Jamila you would probably be in a thought provoking and easy to understand childrens cartoon movie. It would be called The Land Before Time VIII: Ice Age 3: Jurraissic Park Jr. you would play a new character introduced to the series, Daisyloaf. You would be a young velociraptor on the prowl and independant, but thenyou meet Little Foot and the Gang and you understand the power of friendship and you forge a bond after realizing you need each other to survive or something. Also, raptors have hands, and all of those animals are pretty retarded in that they do not have hands, so you're pretty much the best dinosaur.

Thanks Haya!
Mya Jamila in Arabic:
مَية جَميلة

JBWell on May 29 '09 at 8:43pm
MyaJamila:
Your Old Indian Name:
Crocodile Rock
:)

emilymmkay on Aug 16 '09 at 12:48am
Mya is so cute

Thanks Kerry!

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