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V1ctorya
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My stalker said they'd be here by to 'purge themselves of me' - and the cops say it's not really a threat because purge could mean they want to give me things they have of mine. I say, someone who sends you a letter every time you move telling how to get there is a stalker. Especially when they are batshit crazy.

good news, if they come and try to kill me the cops might be obligated to consider it a threat.

sometimes I feel our laws are woefully inadequate.

Chipmnk
Chipmnk on Oct 14 '10 at 9:02pm
Yikes.
Bio-bot 9000
Bio-bot 9000 on Oct 14 '10 at 9:12pm
oh crap! You should have lots of friends over. Really big strong friends with baseball bats and knives. and guns. If the cops don't protect you you gotta protect yourself
V1ctorya
V1ctorya on Oct 14 '10 at 9:29pm
My roommate has a gun, and my neighbors are welders/construction guys. I'm covered here. It just bugs me this sort of thing isn't a blip for the cops. They straight out told me a disturbing patter would be five letters a day, not just everytime I move or something happens in my life some people shouldn't care about or try and contact me about.
Polyester Jones
Polyester Jones on Oct 14 '10 at 9:48pm
your cops don't seem to have great reading comprehension.
V1ctorya
V1ctorya on Oct 15 '10 at 2:09pm
Nope, they don't. Lawyer was upset (which reminds me, have to contact him again) but cops didn't blink.
squintygirl
squintygirl on Oct 15 '10 at 2:11pm
I wish cops would wise up; by the time they consider it serious enough to intervene, it's sadly too late.

Stay safe, and keep fighting this, it's bullshit.
Mya Jamila
Mya Jamila on Oct 15 '10 at 4:36pm
Saying that a letter every time you move or something innocuous happens in you your life isn't serious enough to warrant their involvement shows that they assume anyone that's going to cause harm doesn't have any control. Just because he's not sending a couple letters a week doesn't mean he won't go through with anything he threatens, or doesn't threaten.
V1ctorya
V1ctorya on Oct 16 '10 at 9:31pm
The person is basically a bully, but this letter was more threatening (and with a date!), well, a bully that beleives they own me. Many of teh phrases in the letter are straight from cases you see elsewhere "I hurt too much without you" "you're causing me so much pain by not replying" etc. It baffles me that they can look at this language and think it's fine because hey, it's just a letter.
shakethesheets
shakethesheets on Oct 16 '10 at 9:36pm
oh jeez. that's frightening and awful, must be pretty disheartening to not have the cops on your side either.

:(

stay safe!
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