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Oct 20 '07 by christi104hsia

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Underage Sex

Around 3-4 weeks ago, Trojan was on the front page of myspace. They had a bulletin board on there and one of the titles intrigued me; "Is Underage Sex Okay?"

On the bulletin, I replied saying that underage sex was fine as long as the kids know what they are doing and what the consequences will be if something goes wrong. Also, it's hard to prevent kids from doing things like that, especially in this day and age when sex is shown in movies and newspapers. It's just that if parents keep saying "No no no", it will make the kids want to do it more.

I am now asking Threadless bloggers and users for their opinion on this subject. Is Underage Sex Okay?

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El_Dictador_Cubano on Oct 20 '07 at 4:53pm

no. Wait till you're 80.

hanzabean on Oct 20 '07 at 4:54pm

as long as they have babies and then drop out of school, yes.

Polyester Jones on Oct 20 '07 at 4:54pm

Define "okay".
Morally? Physically? Socially?

SheepMan22 on Oct 20 '07 at 4:55pm

no girls should have to wear chastity belts till there of age

Pizazz on Oct 20 '07 at 4:56pm

Turns out that there are only 15 or so states with the age f consent set at 18. The rest are all lower, usually at 16.

hanzabean on Oct 20 '07 at 4:59pm

"The rest are all lovers, which explains the poor state of education in rural Maryland."

loserbeech on Oct 20 '07 at 5:08pm

Does it still count as underage sex if only one of you is underage? Because I'm all for paedophilia.

christi104hsia on Oct 20 '07 at 5:09pm

Polyester_Jones: I think okay from the bulletin I checked out meant "mentally or physically". Morally, I'd say it's not okay because the kids might regret the things the do.

christi104hsia on Oct 20 '07 at 5:13pm

I am more of a conservative Democrat. I'd say that if the kids have sex and the girl gets pregnant, it's not her right to just abort the baby. I mean, although she may have unintentionally found herself in that predicament, she willingly had sex with the guy. Therefore, just go through the 8-9 months of labor, have the child, then put it up for adoption.

The only reason I would say that it's fine for the mother to abort the child is only if it will harm the mother (she'll die giving birth) or the child (for example, it will be born with a disfigured head that will scar it's mental process).

christi104hsia on Oct 20 '07 at 5:14pm

looserbeech: I believe it is still counted as underage sex if either of the teens having sex is underage. Underage in CA would be 18.

loserbeech on Oct 20 '07 at 5:14pm

'Therefore, just go through the 8-9 months of labor, have the child, then put it up for adoption.'

lol

christi104hsia on Oct 20 '07 at 5:15pm

haha :) i'm just saying that we should give the baby a chance in life.

Bramish on Oct 20 '07 at 5:17pm

Meh, I say it's the parent's decision whatever. Pro-choice and all that.

kirstenlovesdinner on Oct 20 '07 at 5:18pm

Of course you can't really stop people from doing it. But I think kids should at least wait till they fully understand how pregnancy or stds can impact their lives.

And as for abortion, I say it's a woman's right, but if she's underage, she should need her parent's approval before doing so. If she doesn't get it, then be forced to wait it out then give it up for adoption.

christi104hsia on Oct 20 '07 at 5:21pm

I was on the pro-choice side - I thought that well, the parents know everything and they should make the decision for their kids... but I realized that only 2 years ago, I could have been that pregnant teenager. What would I have done? I think although kids can make huge mistakes, they are mature enough to make their own decisions in life. :O

SheepMan22 on Oct 20 '07 at 5:23pm

didnt we already have a couple long blogs discussing this a couple months ago?

Kerrn on Oct 20 '07 at 5:23pm

define underage.

besides it's not like they can make it illegal. i dont think kids should start having sex until theyre at least 18 because as old as you think 16 or 17 is...it really isnt that old, shit 18 and 19 is still freaking young, but i think at younger ages it's really easy for people to get pressured into things or not really think about what theyre doing and jump into something theyre really not ready to handle emotionally

-k.

SheepMan22 on Oct 20 '07 at 5:25pm

im 23 and sumetimes i wonder how im allowed to copulate

hanzabean on Oct 20 '07 at 5:25pm

lol

LOL

I half love you right now for using "copulate."

kirstenlovesdinner on Oct 20 '07 at 5:26pm

Besides, the risks that come with sex are enormous and can stay with you for the rest of your life. Teenagers are known for = making mistakes. It's just an awful combination.

SheepMan22 on Oct 20 '07 at 5:26pm

ha yea i thought i would throw that in there for good measures

loserbeech on Oct 20 '07 at 5:27pm

Best phrase ever: 'making the beast with two backs'.

Shakespeare knows what's up. Or at least, he knew.

stuffed clams on Oct 20 '07 at 5:28pm

i think kids should just do what they want. ur never going 2 stop them, so after arguing a while [& losing], just let 'em go crazy. 'cause then they'll know ur rite. and thats all thats important.

christi104hsia on Oct 20 '07 at 5:29pm

I am 99% sure underage in California is under 18 years.

Kerrn, I think you are right. Since 7th grade sex ed, I haven't really heard of more sex ed of AIDS, etc. Although my high school may offer Physiology, high school does not offer a mandatory health class.

I don't think it's like the kids don't know what will happen if they have sex. I mean, if they didn't learn the consequences from their parents, their peers would have definitely discussed those situations at one point or another.

christi104hsia on Oct 20 '07 at 5:30pm

copulate.... lol... I haven't heard that word since I read Romeo and Juliet in Freshman year.... :]

theurbanraptor on Oct 20 '07 at 5:30pm

no, you need to wait .21 more years to have it...

kirstenlovesdinner on Oct 20 '07 at 5:32pm

"no, you need to wait .21 more years to have it..."

I don't think the day you hit 18 you are suddenly equipped to have responsible sex. It comes at different times for different people.

christi104hsia on Oct 20 '07 at 5:34pm

(i don't know if there was a blog discussing the same subject i am posting now; i wasn't here until september)

If teens won't listen to their parents, they might as well learn from their own experiences. :O

Bramish on Oct 20 '07 at 5:34pm

I was 14 and I sure thought it was okay.

loserbeech on Oct 20 '07 at 5:35pm

I don't think that sex is important as it's built up to be. And people are way more interested in the sex lives of others than is necessary. Having sex with someone then regretting it isn't the end of the world, and I bet there are more deaths from road accidents than AIDS. As long as you're educating kids about preventing STDs and unwanted pregnancy then it's up to them.

I hate it when I get serious in blogs.

SheepMan22 on Oct 20 '07 at 5:36pm

teens dont listen to anyone except themselves cuz they think they know everything

Magnamoth on Oct 20 '07 at 5:36pm

^
Underage here in Canada is under 18 but you can consent to the nasty at just 14.

All Alberta highschools offer something caled "CALM" Career and Life Management in Grade 11 and its a required course to graduate. It covers some ickys and grossys from sex.

PS you all should wait to see Juno and just respond with something like "stfu homeskillet" its the greatest movie about teen sex ever (I saw it at the toronto film festival)

Kerrn on Oct 20 '07 at 5:38pm

"
I don't think it's like the kids don't know what will happen if they have sex. I mean, if they didn't learn the consequences from their parents, their peers would have definitely discussed those situations at one point or another."

i dont think they do.
sure you know a penis is going to go into a vagina and more than likely it will be pleasurable and that you need to wear condoms or youll end up making a baby or having burny itchy death carrying genitals, but that doesnt mean youre ready to deal with sex. dealing with hey im permanently connected to this person for the rest of my life, whether we stay together or not, ive let this person see me at my most vulnerable and in the most intimate way. sex is a bigger deal than people make it out to be.

-k.

loserbeech on Oct 20 '07 at 5:44pm

'I don't think that sex is important as it's built up to be.'

'sex is a bigger deal than people make it out to be.'

Fight fight fight!

Magnamoth on Oct 20 '07 at 5:45pm

or having burny itchy death carrying genitals

^ I wish I could cum death on people.

Ste7en on Oct 20 '07 at 5:53pm

Kerrn knows whats up

-s.

Bramish on Oct 20 '07 at 5:59pm

How is someone permanently connected to someone they have sex with for the rest of their life?!

Kerrn on Oct 20 '07 at 6:01pm

*note: i grew up in the bible belt and im a girl.

-k.

littlem on Oct 20 '07 at 6:01pm

mmm sex!

Kerrn on Oct 20 '07 at 6:04pm

mom you dont know what sex is! youre a virgin.

-k.

littlem on Oct 20 '07 at 6:06pm

oops. you're absolutely correct. my mistake.

Ste7en on Oct 20 '07 at 6:35pm

Bramish: Oxytocin is your answer.

KickO on Oct 20 '07 at 6:40pm

DO IT!

erinpillar on Oct 20 '07 at 6:45pm

I thought I was really smart when I was younger.
Now I realize I was pretty naive when I was 14-18 (and especially before then).

I would save a big decision like that until a person is over 18 and smarter.

Talking To The Ground on Oct 20 '07 at 6:47pm

Its not good.
It happens, yes, but its not good.
Any sex outside the sanctity of marriage is wrong.
Its outside God's will, and it messes people up.
Like it or not, that is the way it is.

Bramish, to answer your question:
How is someone permanently connected to someone they have sex with for the rest of their life?!
to the best of my ability

You shared that binding "oneness" with someone. You shared your bodies, emotions, even mixed blood. You've shared a connection of spirits as well, a bond that God created to strengthen marriages and increase love.

Here, read this, and I hope it http://www.probe.org/content/view/943/169/

God bless you all!
^_^

loserbeech on Oct 20 '07 at 7:07pm

'You shared your bodies, emotions, even mixed blood.'

What kind of crazy sex are you having?!

Lucretia Mott on Oct 20 '07 at 7:15pm

"go through the 8-9 months of labor"

Jesus christ thats a long labor.

Kerrn on Oct 20 '07 at 7:25pm

loserbeech on Oct 20 '07 at 7:07pm
'You shared your bodies, emotions, even mixed blood.'

What kind of crazy sex are you having?!

hahahahahahahahahaha

i meant more like you cant just forget that person as easily. like they'll forever be on your count.

i think sex should be saved for people you want to always remember...but that often isnt the case, especially if you start boning when youre like 15

-k.

christi104hsia on Oct 20 '07 at 7:25pm

O_O wow... i haven't been on my blog for two hours and this is where the conversation has gone?? lol

Stevethegreat on Oct 20 '07 at 7:29pm

what's a sex?

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