So, my friend and I went out last night. A few guys bought us some drinks. Now, she wasn't drunk or anything, but she started talking about the bad 3 year relationship she got out of in front of this guy we had never met before. I understand she's hurt, but the guy was obviously uncomfortable listening to it, and I tried telling her that we should just try to have a good time and not talk about him, but it didn't work. So, my question is do guys really care about hearing that stuff? And also, what should I do when she starts talking like that again and is getting visibly upset? I want her to have a good time, and I hate seeing her sad like that.