I can't really tell if this is serious or not: Rescue Marriage?

RescueMarriage.org is the brain-child of concerned Christian and political activist John Marcotte, who felt strongly that Prop 8 did not go far enough in protecting traditional marriage. With the help of attorneys and friends, Marcotte is attempting to ban divorce in the State of California.

I thought that is really cool but then I saw that it's only after 75$.. I have to pay huge taxes if I order something over 60$ at once..

But nice for US people I guess..

I want to give my mother a microwave for christmas (she said she wants one, she never had one before).. But i really suck at microwaves, we have one at work but I never owned one.. She wants one that can also do pizzas and has a steam option. I am completely lost, any recommendations out there?

Don't ask me why, but I think today is going to be good.. I was greeted by some construction workers by "Bon Giorno" when I was driving by on my bike and it made me smile.. and now I finally got the picture of the house in Nepal which I helped getting built



it's from the watchmen at my boyfriends parents place in India, the house of his family was washed away and my bf mother was collecting money to get his family another house and I decided to give about 1000$ towards it when I was there this year

Today is good so far!

So we went to a dinner yesterday with seven girls, we invited one of the girl, because it was her bachelorette evening.. Three girls (including me) ordered something rather cheap and three ordered something that was almost twice as expensive.. when the bill came, they wanted to just divide it by six and I mentioned that we did not all have something in the same price range and I got really evil glares.. So in the end we just divided it.. it was about 10 francs/dollars more than it would have been otherwise for me.. it's not much but I just don't like the idea of me having to pay for somebody else's dinner..

I also wouldn't mind if I would go to dinner with them often and it would even out over a while, but one of the girls I had just met and two others I hardly see..

tell me that i am not getting irritated over nothing please..

I came here to tell you to watch this movie if you have a chance



but while searching for a trailer for it, i came along this:


so you will not even have to watch it with subtitles.. Remaking of foreign films in Hollywood is pretty stupid..

I maybe said it here before some time, but my brother has mental problems.. He has been in the mental hospital several times, the last time two years ago but since he came out he was fine and had a job.. well, somehow it was triggered last week that he started to feel bad again.. he has a psychosis and hears voices and thinks that my mother has problems and stuff like this...

he turned 30 this year, but he still lives with her since he never had a job for long so far.. the one he has now he has since two years and i think that is a record..

this tuesday my mother came home and he had thrown stuff everywhere so she called the police and he meet an emergency psychiatrist at the police station and then was sent to the mental hospital again..

i just spoke with my mother and she is completely destroyed.. she says nothing has sense anymore and that she is completely alone (my dad left her last year).. i doubt she will do something to herself but i never know.. i just don't know what to do.. she told me not to call and that she will call me..

Today is bad.. I have the second UTI within two months.. and apparently my health insurance never received my cancellation last year so I have to pay something extra each month next year.. and my new health insurance rose it's price.. but it's still one of the cheapest..

I want to go home an crawl into bed..

I know some people here play it.. can you still play it? it tells me to update my flash player which is up to date :(

I will go to holidays next week with
-my boyfriend
-his parents
-his sister
-his brother with wife and three kids (2,4,7)


I am not sure if I will need holidays after these holidays..