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stubby43
stubby43 aka Phil is a 25.42 year old boy, has been a member since December 22, 2006, has scored 3,809 submissions, giving an average score of 2.65, helping 191 designs get printed.
I just found out that a girl I knew at college is dead... I found out through facebook.

I was never that close to her, she was a friend of a friend but I'm shocked.

I dont know how she died but from what I remember it could of been suicide, the last time I saw her she was anorexic and I'd heard she was doing drugs.

edit -

Just spoken to a friend she'd got so anorexic her heart gave in.

smitten kitten
smitten kitten on Mar 07 '08 at 4:05pm
I'm sorry to hear that.
stubby43
stubby43 on Mar 07 '08 at 4:10pm
I'm just confused right now, this is the last thing I was expecting to hear.
Roostersauce
Roostersauce on Mar 07 '08 at 4:22pm
Two people I knew from high school died at the begining of this year. Death is a weird thing man.
Noodlegirl
Noodlegirl on Mar 07 '08 at 4:24pm
Sorry ....



death is weird.
smitten kitten
smitten kitten on Mar 07 '08 at 4:27pm
I run a cemetery, among other things, and it's hard. I never know what to say.
stubby43
stubby43 on Mar 07 '08 at 4:27pm
One of my best friends saw her the day before she died I've no idea what he's going through.
stubby43
stubby43 on Mar 07 '08 at 4:30pm
Smitten I could never do what you do, I've got teary eyes and I really didnt know her that well.



A friend of mine has a video of her acting in a short film he shot, its really, really strange seeing her.
lemonalle
lemonalle on Mar 07 '08 at 4:33pm
aww that's terrible!
smitten kitten
smitten kitten on Mar 07 '08 at 4:34pm
yeah, stubby some times I just have to excuse myself and come to my office for a moment cos I start to cry. It's just this weird side part of my job, not my normal job.
stubby43
stubby43 on Mar 07 '08 at 4:43pm
I have alot of respect for you, people like you do the tough jobs no one else wants to do.
Khol
Khol on Mar 07 '08 at 4:49pm
My friend from grade school died last week.

It's always so shocking to find out that someone your age and someone you knew has passed away.



I'm sorry for your loss.

Even if you weren't that close to her, I'm sure it'd hard to comprehend. Death does that I suppose.
stubby43
stubby43 on Mar 07 '08 at 4:54pm
Khol, rooster I'm sorry for your losses and thanks for your condolances.
stubby43
stubby43 on Mar 08 '08 at 12:14pm
I know theres never a good enough time to get bad news like this but I'm having enough problems with work and my flat mates.



I started a new job today and had to be in at 8am (which meant i had to be up at 6:30am) and they were screaming, shouting and slamming doors until 4am. Every week we have the wardens round threatening to fine us for noise and for having a dirty house.



To top it off I've lost respect for two of my house mates who made a joke about playing wii as if they had spina bifida.



My cousin has spina bifida and its an extremely painful a dibilitating disease. There was no way the joke could of been taken any other way but as offensive to people with the disease.



So I'm pretty fed up.
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