Clara has been in a relationship, a serious one, for the past three and a half years. She, besides being a commercial artist is also a terrific cook. Joe, her boyfriend, a dentist with flourishing practice at a young age is a cool and confident guy. They were enjoying being in the relationship till Joe suddenly declared that he has to move out of the town and moving out of the relationship as well. That one incident left Clara with the sense of dejection and fear of relationships like never before. It took her months to overcome that.

Whatever he did, John could never taste success in work life. He was a good, if not brilliant student at school and a pet of all his teachers. He started his career as a web developer in a reputed web design firm. He was into his job merely for eight months when he started realizing that he was unable to cope up with the job demand and job pressure. It was not like the academics. Simply being a hard worker or intelligent does not pay. He needs to walk the extra mile all the time. Though a technical guy, he has to interact quite a bit with the customers, his team mates and even employees from other departments. He also realized, rather late, that he will have to engage the other party to agree to his point of view. Every time he cannot just give in to whatever they say. He has to learn to say ‘no’ at times as well as be much tactful in dealing with others. However, before he had such realization, he already developed a fear of success, as he started believing that success comes at a price like compromising on values etc. which he was not ready to do.

Sid’s only target in life is to lose body weight. He is 23 years of age and grossly overweight. His BMI index divulges that he is an obese. This takes a toll on his self esteem and personality. His desperation revealed in his crash diet strict exercise regime. Will that work for Sid? Does he need something more?

We all have our small and big dreams. Some are good to have; however, one or two are such that we cannot compromise on that. Still after rigorous attempt we fail to realize our dreams that are the crux of our being. Why does that happen? Why do we fail to keep the relationship we can die for? Why do we cannot realize our potential in career? Who stops us from being the person we want to be, have the kind of life we desire or the relations we cherish.

Well, researches show we ourselves are holding us back, no one else. If some of us can realize their potential, why can’t we? It is due to the beliefs, the fears, negativities that are rooted deep down in our sub conscious. We want success, happy relationship, perfect body at the conscious level, we talk about that, we work towards that. Yet in the subconscious level we have fear of success, the tremendous efforts success demands, the adjustments in the relationships etc.

The book called The First Key by the reputed psychiatrist Daphna Slonim, MD with over 35 years of experience and based in Los Angeles, CA helps you realize your potential by analyzing your fear of relationships or fear of success or any other fear at the subconscious level and addressing them. Whether you want to realize your social, emotional, physical, financial, spiritual or mental potential you have an easy task at hand. Tell your subconscious to assist you in your effort and see the wonders in your life. See a new you, with 100 per cent support from the subconscious.